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The Welfare We Need

  ā€œI donā€™t want your face looking like that while Iā€™m talking.ā€  (Face was ā€˜bland neutral.ā€™) ā€œPeople here donā€™t like you, because youā€™re too negative.ā€ (Used very light sarcasm to defuse workplace tension.) ā€œI think itā€™s a bit inconsiderate to overshare the way you doā€¦everyone is struggling here, and they donā€™t need to be worried about you.ā€ (Had responded to ā€œHowā€™re you doing?ā€ with ā€œOkay, I thinkā€¦itā€™s been a bit tough at home, but Iā€™m getting through. Howā€™s everything with you?ā€) ā€œWe need happy, bubbly team players here - if thatā€™s not how you feel, every day, then Iā€™m sorry, but weā€™re just not the right place for you to thrive.ā€ (Person was behaving normally, being professionally welcoming, supporting their colleagues.) Employers don't want to employ people with "mental health problems" (or disabilities), but the government don't want those people claiming welfare. Yes, depression and anxiety are natural, normal responses to life, especially life as it is current...