I'm not a Christian, but I follow a focus on energies and expectations which centres a world beyond the one I walk through and work in. I do not believe I will have an eternal life elsewhere as the form of "myself" people who knew me in life would immediately recognise, but I do believe some aspect of me - what people mean when they talk about a 'soul' - will endure, in some altered form. I believe everyone's essence and energy endures, as part of the collective unconscious, the source of those moments of inspiration, those sudden thoughts, those flashes of insight, that the living feel "come out of nowhere." Good Friday, for me, isn't about commemorating the Christian God. But it is a position in liminal time - a period where the energies of the physical world shift, sometimes imperceptibly, sometimes more noticably. And, for me, whose focus includes a Dedication to a Goddess of Death, it is a day to centre and honour death. To become comf...
Every article that comes up when you search "How to recover from burnout" is either just the usual bare-minimum basic "human life maintenance" of "oooohhh, get enough sleep! Eat fruit and veggies! Exercise! Be outside! THERAPEEEEE!!!!" - okay, tell the "get enough sleep" to my insomnia. I go to bed around 10pm routinely. I don't scroll my phone or bop about on my laptop when I'm settling to sleep. I know I need to have background noise, so I set that up before I settle down. I take half an hour before I start to try to sleep, I check in with whether I need more/fewer blankets, or if I need the window open. I sleep alone (I'm married, my wife and I have very contradicting sleep needs.) I'm a grown adult without food sensitivities or allergy triggers - I eat fresh fruit and vegetables as a routine, daily thing. Along with knowing my body's tolerance for protein (I have high protein needs owing to multiple physical health ch...